The composition of love and finding it with another is what the Cancer man is searching for. He is shy and distrusting of others so it presents a challenge for a Cancer man to find love. The Cancerian is ever on guard, protecting his emotions, so few of these men find love on first sight. They simply don’t believe that it’s possible.
Cancer Man Bound by Elusive Love
The Cancer man is characterized as a Crab. This very visual image presents a tough, calloused shell. However inside the shell is a tender and sensitive center. This man is governed by the Moon while also a part of the element of water. Cancer lays a claim of exclusivity here, thus both the sign of the man and his planetary ruling body sum up this creature as moist and cold by nature. Unwrapping the protective shell and getting inside the vulnerability is the greatest challenge of the Cancer man’s psyche.
Understanding the man of Cancer begins with the ancient beginnings of the zodiac. Historically, having a condition of moisture meant being able to emote and express one’s feelings with another. Any type of wetness softens the dividing line that defines a unique individual. Sharing an experience with another allows empathy and compassion. The ability to share emotions is an important part of forming a bond or a union with another. Here begins the foundation of fertility then love and ultimately reproduction.
The Center of Love with a Cancer Man
When a Cancer man finds a loving partner, he will drive directly into the center of the passion. Getting past the crab’s hard shell is a task in and of itself but once he’s found his loving partner, he will unleash the romance with gifts of flowers, going on dates that include riding white ferried horses and if need be, slaying a symbolic dragon. The Cancer man has a strong side of tradition so once the shell is penetrated, his thoughtfulness will be presented in the warmest way of expression. He will wine and dine you in great restaurants and seek to grant all of your intimate wishes.
Described as one of the best mates in the astrological zodiac, the Cancer man is loyal and very attentive to the desires of his lover. Without being asked, he will happily do the chores that need to be done. He’ll toss out the garbage, repair a cracking chair, navigate directions and smash the creepy, crawlies, all for the love of his woman.
Elements of Love for the Cancer Man
Guided by the element of Water, the coy and caring Cancer man is a breath of fresh air in the bedroom. He is an embracing and blazing lover. He is intuitive and connects to his woman through her emotions and feelings. His sensuality is artful and fills his quiet skill. Like the lyrical effects of sunlight on water ripples, simply embrace the romantic love for your Cancer man. Set a loving scene with flower petals that trail to a candlelit bath of warmth and love. The enchantment of romance with sex will go far for the soft center of a Cancer man. He is capable and will reciprocate with compassion and tenderness targeted at pleasing you in return.
Cancer Men are Defined by Chivalry
Because of the Canerian’s hard shell, this relationship will require a lot of sensitivity and support so that he won’t crawl or swim away. Once his center is exposed he is susceptible to disappointment and will vow to distrust another. Know that this loyal partner is committed strongly, without a question and so he will expect the very same in return. A Cancer man will not endure an infidelity; he will break away and leave the relationship. He won’t absorb feelings of hurt or work to resolve such an issue. He’ll simply shut the door and walk away.
The best zodiac signs of compatibility for a Cancer man are Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio and Pisces. Most famous names born under the sign of Cancer are Tom Hanks, Kevin Bacon, Tobey Maguire and Tom Cruise.
Always remember, an act of force will never work with a Cancer Man. He is too reserved, initially, and overt feelings of aggression will drive him to bury himself in the sand. Move cautiously, and quietly wait for him to open his shell and once he does, the warm center will envelope you with eternal love. Despite the mood shifts in between that are influenced by the lunar phases of the moon, once settled inside the center with the Cancer man, long moments of compassion await you.